Nerds vs Geeks: Is There A Difference?
Written By Kamigoroshi on Apr. 23, 2007.
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Scrivs post on "A Virgin Squad For Geeks" reminded me of something I debated with a friend a while back.
Is there a difference between Nerds and Geeks? because as far as I have defined it. They are completely different.
Geeks are people with specialized skills and are good at what they do. They use those skills in turn as a form of social skill. Whether it be movies, music, programming, rubiks cubes, geeks will find a way to be part of society and with that as a sidenote, are pretty well off in forming relationships with people.
Nerds on the other hand are the extreme case. They are extremely specialised and will spend no ounce of energy in socializing with people. But they are the best of their kind, to the envy of geeks. For the most part, they just don't care about people and their social skills are pretty much abysmal.
I'm proud to be a geek. I have my eccentricities but they for the most part are my party piece when it comes to socializing.
What about you guys? Do you think there is a difference? If so, what is your definition. I think the common social stigma when it comes to this is that there is no difference. Being place in the same category is nerds. That kinda pisses me off at times.

Oli
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
I think there fundamentally the same thing with a few small defining factors.
Geeks are all about technology, fantasy, sci-fi etc, in a very general manner. They also bare the brunt of the stereotypes.
Nerds are all about learning -- whatever their passion. Of course a computer nerd is going to share the same stereotypes as a computer geek but I think there's a lot more passion about how the technology works. Because the passion is spent in their pursuit, as you say, socialising gets thrust on the back burner.
But there is a lot of overlap and I don't think most people would care what they call you because to them, they're pretty much the same thing. I reckon you have to be one or t'other to recognise the differences.
I'm a nerd and proud of it.
carmodyarc
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
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Derek and I share the exact same view here. I hope that I'd be called a geek rather than a nerd.
jensized
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
I more share Oli's view on the distinction.
When I think of the word "nerd" I instantly think of Toby from American Splendor.
peroty
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
I set geeks squarely in the computer-related fields and video gaming. Whereas nerds I set in the older realms of books and tabletop gaming. There is plenty of overlap, myself being one of those.
I consider both terms complimentary.
Just my 2 cents.
Rich
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
I'm with Oli on this and will proudly proclaim myself a nerd to all who will listen.
chris
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
I always thought the distinction was that nerds have to be smart. (So I am not a nerd.)
carmodyarc
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
LOL @ Chris
jensized
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
Good point there. I knew a guy in high school who was hardcore D&D/MMORPG player/trading card collector type but he was dumb as a rock. So what was he?
Oli
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
jensized: a geek by my reckoning.
Kamigoroshi
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
Jensized: A dweeb.
Oli: Geeks don't have to be all about what you said because if so, where do bookworms, movie buffs, music geeks, photophiles, art buffs, adrenaline junkies, tree huggers go to?
Both geeks and nerds share passion for finding new things, especially towards what they do best. But geeks draw the line knowing that they can't sacrifice their social lives dedicating themselves that drastically. When you talk to them about what they love, they can tell you 1001 things about it. They love to talk to you about it.
Nerds on the other hand don't really care either way.
Tyme
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
Let me introduce myself. My name is Tyme White. I'm me.
People try to define me as a geek because I love technology, computers, sci-fi, and gaming.
Others will try to define me as a nerd because my mind is like a sponge (I love to learn) and I love books and table-top games.
I don't look like what is portrayed of either one.
So my name is Tyme White, I'm me. :)
karmatosed
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
My name is Tammie and I use labels to identify food not people. ;)
estarla
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
My name is Esther and I take pictures of my food. People call me a nerd for that. I never really raise a protest about it, either, by saying I'm really a "geek." :) I tend to think the term "nerd" is a bit more endearing... Meh. To each his/her own. Haha.
Scrivs
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
I'm a geek. Plain and simple. Geeks are fine, but being called a nerd or a dork is just a level you don't want to achieve.
Scrivs
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
The more I think about it the more I envision nerds with no social skills and keep to themselves, while geeks are more incredibly into something but not oblivious the outside world.
cooper
Written Apr. 23, 2007 / Report /
I think of nerds as socially isolated by choice, preferring to shun social contact for whatever arcane intellectual quest they are pursuing at a given time.
I think of geeks as people who are obsessed with one or two particular things - often but not always technology or computer based. I know psychology geeks, anthropology geeks, surfing and snowboarding geeks and on and on. I don't always relate "geek" to "brains" although they may be particularly knowledgeable about one or two given subjects.
shadowsun7
Written Apr. 24, 2007 / Report /
I have yet to meet a geek or a nerd. They are essentially labels, and applying labels to human beings are somewhat ... too general for my liking.
Each of us are unique - I've a friend who plays 16 hour C&C sessions, plus Rakion and Gunz and whatever other Asian MMORPG.
But he's a hell of a basketball player.
And you may say I'm a blogging geek - I can spend hours writing posts.
But I am equally passionate about Judo.
No, each of us are unique individuals in our own right. Calling us Geek or Nerd would only apply to certain facets of our being. Overall we are like gems - too many facets for one single label.
brendan
Written Apr. 24, 2007 / Report /
There is often a "negative" reaction to being called a nerd.. someone who is "square" or socially awkward - yet I don't think there is the social stigma to it as it once was..
The idea of the "geek" in some respects has it's roots in nerdship - the function of being massively into something and getting pretty clued up about it. That has a nerd aspect to it..
Geek actually originated in circus circles, to describe those who bite off the heads of chickens (perhaps that is why the "rubber chicken" has often often been considered and in some ways is the defacto geek mascot).
Given geeks the world over regularly bite the heads off people asking for support (*grin*) there's possibly some truth to that. ;)
I am a geek and in some respects a nerd and I have my occasional socially awkward moments (some would call that simply being "shy" in other circles).
And the terms don't worry me in the slightest - indeed to be "geek" is to embrace technology and cool toys.. kinda failing to see the negativity in that. ;)
And really, the who idea behind "nerd" has become partially blended with geek as it is.
Words (or rather, "names") only have power and meaning if you allow them to.
LorriM
Written Apr. 25, 2007 / Report /
I like Tyme's answer, as I can relate to what she has said.